Hi Leah,

I managed to find this comment from another Army single parent who had been asked this question a couple years ago.

"During Basic training you would have to have someone to look after your child/children as it is a fully residential course - meaning you have to stay in camp (you do get some weekends off etc). From friends who've joined as single parents the hardest part is during basic training as it's an adjustment for you (new job, away from home and away from your child/ren) but equally for them too. After that, it does get easier - but like any job as a single parent there are times that you have to rely on help. Most kids are in nursery/childminders/wrap around child care. A lot of serving personnel with older kids find au pairs the answer (i had one for about 4mths). The Army has got so much better, even in the time i have been in, to look after its single parents better. In my last unit, they moved PT in the mornings until after school/nursery drop off so everyone could be included. We have the Army Parents Network which is also really helpful and quite often the go to for advice as someone has always 'been there, done it' or knows exactly where to find the guidance in army direction. I hope this helps."

Regards,

SSgt Rob Needham

14 March, 2025 09:33